Since one of my friends left from Kukes early, there is a lack of a female chaperone for the highly active Outdoor Ambassadors group in Kukes. Since we don't have one established in Bajram Curri I always like to help out with the one in Kukes whenever I can. The governor of the Kukes Region completley funded the trip for 15 kids in the OA group, with lodging, food and transportation. He also came along with two other workers in the municipality to take pictures for tourism development. So their was proof of a female chaperone I went to Kukes the night before to pick the kids up the next day. We met with the governor that night and discussed out action plan.
We left Kukes bright and early on and traveled on the old road, through Albania, to Bajram Curri through the long widey road that the public transportation doesn't take. We checked into the hotel in Bajram Curri and headed up to Valbona. We ended up in Çerem, a small village located on the village of Montenegro and Albania. There were grazers and families literally living hours away from any other civilization. It started to pour down raining after we ate lunch around 2:00pm so we decided to head back down. I've never gotten a chance to see the river while it's raining (having a private vehicle changes everything).
The next morning we headed back up to Valbona and hung out all day, taking pictures, playing basketball and cards.. I once again earned some cred (being a woman from the men) playing basketball. It was fun to play with the governor of Kukes and some members of my Bashkia as well. I think the kids had a good time and got to see a part of their country they other wise wouldn't have. The students are in the last year of the high school or just graduated this year and are great kids. Highly motivated, speak amazing English and I think will be able to make a change in their country.
Thursday
Outdoor Ambassadors Excursion..
Visiting an old friend..
Tuesday
She's a teacher and has a break this summer..
This place was a brilliant find and goes to show you that knowing Albanian's enhances your experience in their country. Who would have guessed that they know all the awesome places to go. I thought this would be the perfect way to end mom's visit in Albania, especially after "roughing it" in Bajram Curri. We spent the last nights in this luxurious hotel, hanging out by the pool and reflecting on our crazy past few weeks.
I recognized that after my dad came and visited how much easier it was to talk to him about things that happened in my life here because he had a point of reference and just wasn't imagining this far away land. I found this true with my mom as well, even before she left. Talking about furgons or traveling through another country to get to my apartment is pretty hard to visualize in your head, at least I found out this much. I wonder if almost getting arrested at the border is hard to visualize, because that happened to me coming home.
Anyways, I think my mom had a really good experience here. She kept saying "the pictures don't do this place justice" or "the people here love you and are so warm" and "this is not as bad as I thought it would be" which is always good to hear, but makes me wonder how bad she thought it was! When my dad was here we rented a car but my mom wanted the full experience so we took a 5-6 hour furgon from the capital to my town. Surprisingly she said this was one of her favorite parts because it aloud her to see so much of the country.
Introducing her around Bajram Curri was exhausting (having to translate everything and everyone wanting to take us to coffee and such) but it was such a great thing for my friends here and my mom. We got to actually hang out in my apartment and not feel the rush and pressure that we did on the cruise to be places and that was soooo nice. Since divorce is not very common in this country and when it does happen it's considered shameful I usually don't tell my acquaintances that my parents are divorced; and this comes up a lot with people you just meet, believe it or not. But as I expected a few people asked why my dad came without my mom and instead of going into everything my response was 'because she's a school teacher and had a break this summer.' Done. Awesome. The trip was amazing and I already feel like I'm missing something not having her in my apartment right now.
I recognized that after my dad came and visited how much easier it was to talk to him about things that happened in my life here because he had a point of reference and just wasn't imagining this far away land. I found this true with my mom as well, even before she left. Talking about furgons or traveling through another country to get to my apartment is pretty hard to visualize in your head, at least I found out this much. I wonder if almost getting arrested at the border is hard to visualize, because that happened to me coming home.
Anyways, I think my mom had a really good experience here. She kept saying "the pictures don't do this place justice" or "the people here love you and are so warm" and "this is not as bad as I thought it would be" which is always good to hear, but makes me wonder how bad she thought it was! When my dad was here we rented a car but my mom wanted the full experience so we took a 5-6 hour furgon from the capital to my town. Surprisingly she said this was one of her favorite parts because it aloud her to see so much of the country.
Introducing her around Bajram Curri was exhausting (having to translate everything and everyone wanting to take us to coffee and such) but it was such a great thing for my friends here and my mom. We got to actually hang out in my apartment and not feel the rush and pressure that we did on the cruise to be places and that was soooo nice. Since divorce is not very common in this country and when it does happen it's considered shameful I usually don't tell my acquaintances that my parents are divorced; and this comes up a lot with people you just meet, believe it or not. But as I expected a few people asked why my dad came without my mom and instead of going into everything my response was 'because she's a school teacher and had a break this summer.' Done. Awesome. The trip was amazing and I already feel like I'm missing something not having her in my apartment right now.
Thursday
131 and counting?..
So, after taking my first ever cruise, I was reassured that I do not fit in with people who think money is the most important thing in the world. Being a Peace Corps Volunteer, obviously we don't make that much money, and although I had some money saved, I'm pretty much straight out of college. My mom is a public school teacher and this cruise, more or less, was a huge, generous gift from my aunt. I over heard one person say this was their 131st cruise they'd been on. Then I tried to think of anything I had done 131 times.. and couldn't. Since I didn't really hit it off with many of my fellow cruisers, I became friends with a lot of the staff. They were from all around the world: India, Bulgaria, Poland, Russia, Brazil.. After talking with them and they asked me what I did and I told them I lived in Albania, no matter where in the world they were from I still got the same scrunched faced reaction from all of them followed by "why?!"
Now, living in the Tropoje region, most Albanians in the south have a preconceived idea that it's horrible up here, even though 99.9% of them have never been here and will never come. I always take this as an opportunity to tell them how beautiful the mountains and the people alike are; now I got the chance to do that on an international level haha. I met some amazing people and heard stories of struggle, joy and triumph. Most of them looked at working on the cruise as a way to provide for their families as well as being able to see the world. Most of them only got to see their families 1 or 2 months out of the year because of their work schedules. The cruise was a far way from my current day to day life and made me realize a lot of things that have changed about myself since I was in America.
A huge positive thing about being on this huge ship was the ability to get to a lot of different countries quick! And not having to worry about making arrangements for hotels and spending money on food! Starting out in Bari, I took the overnight ferry by myself from Durres. After being informed by an Albanian friend that I had been ripped off by buying my ticket online before hand and not at the port it was hard not to resent sleeping on the floor that night when I could have had a bed for the same price had I bought it later. Bari was a typical small Italian town, the highlight for me was eating at McDonalds.
Corfu, although a few miles away from the coast of Albania was vastly different. After Corfu, the next day we woke up in Mykonos, one of the most beautiful places I've ever been to. All of the buildings whitewashed with bright blue doors. After Mykonos was Athens which I wasn't too impressed with. A huge city with historical places scattered throughout it was a little overwhelming. Then to Dubrovnik (what I looked forward to the most about the trip). The Old Town of Dubrovnik, still incapsulated inside castle walls was amazing from far away and close up. My favorite of all however was Venice. I've only heard how romantic this city is and if I ever get married I'm going to push for going their for our honeymoon.
Overall the trip was amazing and it was so good to spend it with my mom. Now back in Albania I'm almost wondering if we should have come here first and then gone on a 5-star vacation.
Now, living in the Tropoje region, most Albanians in the south have a preconceived idea that it's horrible up here, even though 99.9% of them have never been here and will never come. I always take this as an opportunity to tell them how beautiful the mountains and the people alike are; now I got the chance to do that on an international level haha. I met some amazing people and heard stories of struggle, joy and triumph. Most of them looked at working on the cruise as a way to provide for their families as well as being able to see the world. Most of them only got to see their families 1 or 2 months out of the year because of their work schedules. The cruise was a far way from my current day to day life and made me realize a lot of things that have changed about myself since I was in America.
A huge positive thing about being on this huge ship was the ability to get to a lot of different countries quick! And not having to worry about making arrangements for hotels and spending money on food! Starting out in Bari, I took the overnight ferry by myself from Durres. After being informed by an Albanian friend that I had been ripped off by buying my ticket online before hand and not at the port it was hard not to resent sleeping on the floor that night when I could have had a bed for the same price had I bought it later. Bari was a typical small Italian town, the highlight for me was eating at McDonalds.
Corfu, although a few miles away from the coast of Albania was vastly different. After Corfu, the next day we woke up in Mykonos, one of the most beautiful places I've ever been to. All of the buildings whitewashed with bright blue doors. After Mykonos was Athens which I wasn't too impressed with. A huge city with historical places scattered throughout it was a little overwhelming. Then to Dubrovnik (what I looked forward to the most about the trip). The Old Town of Dubrovnik, still incapsulated inside castle walls was amazing from far away and close up. My favorite of all however was Venice. I've only heard how romantic this city is and if I ever get married I'm going to push for going their for our honeymoon.
Overall the trip was amazing and it was so good to spend it with my mom. Now back in Albania I'm almost wondering if we should have come here first and then gone on a 5-star vacation.
Wednesday
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